So, you’re thinking about attending your first BJD meet but your stomach’s doing flips, and your brain’s racing with questions like:
What do I bring?
What will the people be like?
What if I feel out of place?
What will my doll even wear?!
First off anxiety is normal. Most collectors feel nervous before their first meet, especially if they’ve never seen another BJD in person or connected with hobbyists offline. The most important step is simply GOING. Once you're there, you’ll find that most people are just happy to be around others who get it.
Do Your Homework (But Don't Stress It)
Check the rules, location details, and theme of the meet. Many organizers post the schedule or activities ahead of time—things like games, photo ops, item swaps, or even raffles. Knowing what to expect clears up a lot of the mystery and helps you mentally prepare.
Outfits: Yours and Theirs
You don’t have to go all out, but it’s totally normal to plan both your outfit and your doll’s. A themed look can be a fun way to break the ice, and people love seeing what creative ideas others come up with. There’s no judgment if you keep it simple this is a safe space for all styles and experience levels.
Doll Bags and Stands: Your Best Friends
Pick a secure, padded carrier bag to protect your doll during travel. And whatever you do, bring a stand! Accidental bumps happen, and the dreaded doll domino effect is real. A good stand keeps your doll safe and ready to pose for photos.
What Else Should I Pack?
A small cloth or mat to place your doll on (depending on location)
A hairbrush or small accessories for quick touch-ups
Your phone or camera for pics (ask before taking photos of others' dolls)
Optional: business cards, stickers, or small trades if you’re into community-building
Be Ready to Chat… or Not
Some people come to socialize, others just want to admire dolls quietly—and both are okay. There’s no pressure to be overly outgoing. Just be kind, respect others’ space, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Most collectors are happy to share tips, admire your doll, or just geek out about sculpts and styling.
Final Thoughts
Your first meet is a milestone. It might feel scary, but it’s also a chance to find your people, make new memories, and fall even more in love with the hobby. You’ll likely leave with photos, new connections, and maybe even inspiration for your next doll or outfit.
So take a breath, pack your doll bag, and show up. That’s the hardest part, you’ve got this!
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